Planning & Productivity prompts

Help me sort out everything I have to do.

EVERYTHING ON MY MIND (messy, unordered, whatever comes out):
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[BRAIN DUMP - tasks, worries, half-formed things, all of it]
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TIME AVAILABLE THIS WEEK: [REALISTICALLY]
WHAT IS ALREADY FIXED: [APPOINTMENTS AND COMMITMENTS]
WHAT I AM MOST ANXIOUS ABOUT: [IF ANYTHING]

Produce:

1. THE SORT - everything I wrote, split into:
   - ACTIONS: things I do. Each rewritten as a specific physical next step. 'Sort out insurance' is not an action; 'find last year's policy document' is. This rewriting is most of the value.
   - DECISIONS: things I need to decide before I can act
   - WAITING ON SOMEONE ELSE: with who and since when
   - NOT ACTUALLY MINE: things I have been carrying that belong to someone else
   - NOT REALLY A TASK: worries, vague unease, and things that are not actionable. These take up as much mental space as real tasks and cannot be done; naming them separately is what releases them.

2. THE TWO-MINUTE LIST - anything that would take under two minutes. Do these now, before planning anything else; they occupy disproportionate mental space.

3. THE ACTUAL DEADLINES - which things have real deadlines and which feel urgent without being so. Most lists have three genuinely time-bound items and a lot of noise.

4. THE ANXIETY ITEM - I said what I am most anxious about. Usually it is one thing, it is often not the biggest task, and it is usually anxiety-inducing because the next step is unclear. Name the specific next step.

5. THIS WEEK - given my time, what fits. Be conservative; lists always assume more capacity than exists.

6. NOT THIS WEEK - explicitly, so the rest is off the list rather than hovering.

7. THE THREE - if only three things get done, which, and why those.

8. WHAT TO DROP - things on this list that do not need doing at all. There is usually something.

9. WHERE TO START - one thing, this afternoon.

Help me plan my week.

WHAT I NEED TO GET DONE: [LIST, WITH ROUGH TIME FOR EACH IF YOU KNOW]
FIXED COMMITMENTS: [APPOINTMENTS, WORK HOURS, ANYTHING UNMOVEABLE]
WHEN I WORK BEST: [morning / afternoon / evening / varies]
WHAT USUALLY GOES WRONG: [WHAT DERAILS YOUR WEEKS]
ENERGY THIS WEEK: [normal / low / stretched]

Produce:

1. THE TIME AUDIT - total hours in the week, minus sleep, minus fixed commitments, minus the ordinary business of living (eating, travel, household). What is genuinely left. This number is always smaller than people assume and is the reason plans fail.

2. THE TASK TIME - my list with realistic durations, which for most tasks is longer than the estimate. Say the total and compare it to the available hours. If it does not fit, say so now.

3. WHAT COMES OUT - if it does not fit, what gets deferred, delegated or dropped. Deciding this now beats discovering it on Thursday.

4. THE SCHEDULE - specific, with tasks placed at times. Demanding work at my best hours; admin and low-concentration tasks at the rest. Most people schedule by deadline and get this backwards.

5. THE BUFFER - at least a fifth of the available time unscheduled. Things overrun, things come up, and a plan with no slack breaks on the first interruption and is then abandoned entirely.

6. THE BATCHING - similar tasks grouped, because switching between different kinds of work costs more time than people account for.

7. THE DERAILMENT PLAN - I said what usually goes wrong. For each: what to do when it happens, so the week bends rather than breaks.

8. THE MINIMUM WEEK - if energy is low or things go badly, the reduced version: what must happen and what can slide. Having this defined prevents a bad Tuesday becoming a lost week.

9. THE ONE THING PER DAY - for each day, the single item that makes the day a success. Everything else is a bonus.

10. THE FRIDAY CHECK - five minutes to see what happened and adjust next week's assumptions.

I keep putting something off. Help me work out why and start it.

THE TASK: [WHAT IT IS]
HOW LONG I HAVE BEEN AVOIDING IT: [TIMEFRAME]
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN I THINK ABOUT DOING IT: [YOUR HONEST REACTION]
THE DEADLINE: [IF THERE IS ONE]
WHAT I DO INSTEAD: [YOUR AVOIDANCE BEHAVIOUR]
HOW BIG IT ACTUALLY IS: [YOUR ESTIMATE]

Produce:

1. THE DIAGNOSIS - procrastination is not laziness; it has causes, and each needs a different response:
   - UNCLEAR FIRST STEP: you do not know where to start, so you do not
   - TOO BIG: the task as conceived is unstartable
   - FEAR OF DOING IT BADLY: the task involves being judged, or you are not sure you can do it well
   - IT IS UNPLEASANT: genuinely tedious or uncomfortable
   - IT NEEDS SOMETHING YOU DO NOT HAVE: information, a decision, or someone else
   - YOU DO NOT ACTUALLY WANT TO: it may not need doing, or not by you
   From what I described, which is most likely.

2. THE FIRST PHYSICAL ACTION - the smallest observable thing. Not 'start the report' but 'open the document and type the title'. If the first step takes more than a few minutes, it is still too big.

3. THE SIZE CHECK - my estimate against a realistic one. Avoided tasks grow in the imagination, and many turn out to be twenty minutes of work carrying weeks of dread. Say what this one probably is.

4. IF IT IS FEAR - name it plainly. The task involves the possibility of doing it badly, and avoiding it postpones that. The practical response is to lower the standard for the first attempt: produce a deliberately rough version, because a bad draft can be improved and a blank page cannot.

5. THE MISSING PIECE - if it needs something I do not have, that is the actual task. Getting the information or making the decision is what to do, not the thing itself.

6. THE TIME BOX - fifteen minutes, then stop if you want to. Starting is the hard part; continuing usually is not. Permission to stop is what makes starting possible.

7. THE SETUP - what to prepare so the first action requires no decisions: the file open, the number to hand, the interruptions off.

8. WHAT I DO INSTEAD - I said what I avoid it with. Say how to make that less available for the next half hour, without moralising about it.

9. THE HONEST QUESTION - does this actually need doing? Some avoided tasks are avoided because they are not worth doing, and the honest answer is to drop them rather than optimise the doing of them.

10. THE NEXT FIFTEEN MINUTES - exactly what to do now.

Help me set up a task system I will stick with.

WHAT I NEED TO TRACK: [work tasks / personal / household / a project / all of it]
HOW I TRACK THINGS NOW: [DESCRIBE IT, INCLUDING IF IT IS NOTHING]
WHAT HAS FAILED BEFORE: [SYSTEMS YOU HAVE ABANDONED AND WHY]
MY SITUATION: [how varied your days are, how many things you juggle]
PAPER OR DIGITAL: [PREFERENCE, if any]
HOW MUCH I WILL MAINTAIN: [be honest - minimal / some effort / I enjoy this]

Produce:

1. WHY SYSTEMS FAIL - the usual causes, so the design avoids them: too elaborate to maintain, capture too slow so things do not get in, review never happens so trust is lost, and separate systems for different areas so nothing gives the full picture. Identify which caused my previous abandonments.

2. THE SIMPLEST THING THAT WOULD WORK - for my situation, deliberately less than I might want. Systems fail by being too complex far more often than by being too simple, and an elaborate system maintained for two weeks is worse than a list maintained for a year.

3. THE CAPTURE METHOD - one place, always available, where anything goes the moment you think of it. This is the most important component. If capture takes more than a few seconds, things stop getting captured and the system becomes untrustworthy.

4. THE ONE LIST PRINCIPLE - everything in one place, not scattered across notes, emails and memory. The value of a system is that you can trust it holds everything; partial systems provide no relief.

5. THE STRUCTURE - the minimum organisation needed: probably a next-actions list, a someday list, and a waiting-on list. Say whether my situation needs projects or contexts, and be sceptical.

6. THE REVIEW - a short weekly look at everything. This is what makes the system trustworthy, and it is the component people skip, after which the system decays and is abandoned. Say when and how long.

7. THE TOOL - given my preference and maintenance appetite. Paper is underrated: no setup, no notifications, and the friction of rewriting forces pruning. Digital wins for shared, recurring, or searchable. Recommend one and say why.

8. WHAT TO LEAVE OUT - the features and practices that sound useful and add maintenance: tags, priorities, subtasks, time estimates, colour coding. Each one is a decision every time you add a task.

9. THE FIRST WEEK - exactly how to set it up and what to do daily.

10. THE FAILURE SIGNAL - how to tell it is decaying, and what to do about it rather than starting again with a new system, which is the usual and unhelpful response.

Help me understand where my time goes.

WHAT I THINK I SPEND TIME ON: [YOUR ASSUMPTION]
WHAT I ACTUALLY DID YESTERDAY: [AS HONESTLY AS YOU CAN RECONSTRUCT IT, HOUR BY HOUR]
WHAT I FEEL I NEVER HAVE TIME FOR: [THE THINGS THAT DO NOT HAPPEN]
MY COMMITMENTS: [WORK, CARING, OTHER FIXED THINGS]
WHAT FEELS WRONG: [YOUR SENSE OF THE PROBLEM]

Produce:

1. THE RECONSTRUCTION - my day accounted for, hour by hour, with the gaps noted. Unaccounted time is usually the finding.

2. THE CATEGORIES - the day sorted into: fixed commitments, necessary living (eating, travel, household), chosen activity, and time that went somewhere unidentified. The last category is usually larger than expected and is where the available time is hiding.

3. ASSUMPTION VERSUS REALITY - I said what I think I spend time on. Compare it to the reconstruction. People are consistently wrong about this in predictable directions: underestimating small repeated activities and overestimating focused work.

4. THE FRAGMENTATION QUESTION - how much of the day was in unbroken blocks and how much in fragments. The total available hours can look fine while none of it is usable for anything requiring concentration. This is frequently the real problem rather than the amount of time.

5. THE SWITCHING COST - how many times the day changed direction. Each switch costs more than the clock shows, and a day with twenty switches feels exhausting while achieving little.

6. THE MISSING THINGS - I said what never happens. Where in this day could it have gone? Usually the answer is that it would have to displace something, and naming what makes it a choice rather than a failure.

7. THE UNCOMFORTABLE FINDING - if something is consuming a lot of time, say it plainly without moralising. Phone use, meetings, a particular obligation, or an activity that is not producing what it costs.

8. WHAT IS NOT NEGOTIABLE - the commitments that genuinely cannot move. Be realistic; some things feel fixed and are not, and some genuinely are.

9. THE ONE CHANGE - the single change that would free the most usable time, with an honest note on what it costs.

10. THE TRACKING SUGGESTION - one day of honest recording tells you more than any amount of estimating. What to record and how, for a week, without it becoming a project in itself.

Help me turn this goal into something I can actually do.

THE GOAL: [WHAT YOU WANT TO ACHIEVE]
WHY IT MATTERS TO ME: [THE REAL REASON]
BY WHEN: [DEADLINE, or 'no deadline']
WHERE I AM NOW: [YOUR STARTING POINT]
TIME I CAN GIVE IT: [PER WEEK]
WHAT HAS STOPPED ME BEFORE: [IF YOU HAVE TRIED]

Produce:

1. THE GOAL, MADE CONCRETE - what specifically will be true when this is achieved, observably. Vague goals cannot be planned and cannot be finished. Rewrite mine.

2. THE REALITY CHECK - given my starting point and available time, is this achievable by my deadline? Say so plainly. An honest smaller goal beats an ambitious one abandoned in March.

3. THE MILESTONES - working backwards from the goal: what has to be true a month before, three months before, and so on. Each one observable.

4. THE FIRST MILESTONE - reachable within a few weeks, so there is early evidence of progress. Goals with no visible progress for months get abandoned regardless of how much they matter.

5. THE WEEKLY ACTION - what actually happens each week. This is the level at which goals succeed or fail; everything above is structure. Make it specific and small enough to fit the time I said I have.

6. THE FIRST STEP - this week, concrete and small.

7. THE OBSTACLES - I said what stopped me before, if anything. For each: a plan decided now. 'If [obstacle], then [response]'.

8. WHAT I HAVE TO GIVE UP - a new commitment displaces something. Name what, so it is deliberate rather than whatever gets squeezed out. Goals added to a full life without anything removed are the ones that fail.

9. THE MOTIVATION REALITY - the initial enthusiasm will fade, usually within a few weeks. The plan should assume that and rely on structure rather than on feeling like it.

10. THE REVIEW POINT - when to check whether this is working and adjust, including whether the goal itself still matters. Goals sometimes stop being worth pursuing, and noticing that is not failure.

11. THE MINIMUM VERSION - what counts as keeping going during a bad month.

I have too much on. Help me work out what to drop.

EVERYTHING I AM COMMITTED TO: [LIST IT ALL - work, personal, voluntary, social, family]
HOW OVER-COMMITTED I AM: [slightly / significantly / it is not sustainable]
WHAT MATTERS MOST TO ME: [YOUR PRIORITIES]
WHAT I FEEL I CANNOT DROP: [AND WHY]
WHAT IS COMING UP: [NEW REQUESTS OR COMMITMENTS ON THE HORIZON]

Produce:

1. THE ARITHMETIC - roughly what all of this costs in hours per week, against the hours available. If the total exceeds the available time, the current situation is not a matter of better organisation; something has to go. Say so plainly.

2. THE SORT - each commitment into:
   - GENUINELY FIXED: cannot be changed without serious consequence
   - IMPORTANT TO ME: aligned with what I said matters
   - OBLIGATION: doing it because it is expected, not because it matters
   - INHERITED: taken on for a reason that no longer applies
   - SHOULD HAVE ENDED: finished in substance but still occupying space

3. THE HONEST LOOK AT 'CANNOT DROP' - I listed things I feel I cannot drop. For each, what would actually happen if I did. Frequently the consequence is someone being mildly disappointed, which is a real cost and a smaller one than it feels.

4. THE COST OF EACH - not just hours. Some commitments cost disproportionate mental space relative to their time, and those are often the right ones to remove.

5. WHAT TO DROP - a specific recommendation, in order, with what each frees and what it costs.

6. THE PARTIAL OPTIONS - between continuing and stopping: reduce it, hand it over, do it less often, or pause it for a defined period. Often better than an all-or-nothing choice, and easier to propose.

7. HOW TO SAY IT - the actual wording for each, for the specific relationship. Brief, clear, without over-explaining. Extended justification invites negotiation.

8. THE COMING REQUESTS - I said what is on the horizon. The response to prepare now, before being asked, because in the moment it is much harder.

9. THE GUILT PART - dropping commitments feels like letting people down, and some of it genuinely is. Acknowledge that honestly rather than reframing it away, and note that continuing badly at everything usually serves people less than doing fewer things properly.

10. THE RULE FOR NEXT TIME - a simple test for new commitments, so this does not rebuild.

If I said the situation is not sustainable, be direct about it rather than offering optimisation.